(March 21st to April 19th)
The thing that’s really wrong with your love life is you look at love like it’s a competition.
If you’re in a relationship, you want to be the ULTIMATE couple. You want to be the real life #relationshipgoals. You have to realize that you don’t need to be THE BEST in love, you need to be in a relationship that’s healthy and supportive, and one that makes you happy.
If you’re single, you want to find a partner who’s better than everyone else’s. You want to find THE PERFECT boyfriend of girlfriend. Stop focusing on finding the best partner, and try finding someone who’s right for you. The person you end up with will most likely be better than ‘the perfect’ boyfriend or girlfriend.
(April 20th to May 21st)
The thing that’s really wrong with your love life is, it’s just the same old same old.
If you’re in a relationship, things have gotten way too routine. Take your partner somewhere you both have never been together. Do something you both have never done together. Experience things that are new and exciting because those are two things your relationship won’t always be.
If you’re single, you feel like you’ve gotten way too used to it. You need to find a way to change things up. Step outside of your comfort zone and don’t immediately retreat. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, whether it’s with someone else or on your own.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
The thing that’s really wrong with your love life is, you’re getting restless.
If you’re in a relationship, you’re wondering how to make it more interesting. It’s normal to crave change after having the same thing for so long, but don’t take what you have for granted. Do what you can to make things more interesting, but don’t make your partner feel like they’re boring you.
If you’re single, you’re desperately ready to settle down with anyone because you can’t stand being on your own for one more second. You’re tired of the way things currently are, but you don’t know exactly how to change them. You’ll figure it out when you stop looking for a placement filler as a partner. Try to meet someone you enjoy being with, don’t just settle down with the first person you come across.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
The thing that’s really wrong with your love life is, you’re expecting people to be as sensitive as you are.
If you’re in a relationship, you want your partner to share their emotions as much as you do, but not everyone expresses themselves in the same way, and not everyone is as open and vulnerable as you are. Give your partner time and understand that everyone is different when it comes to expressing feelings.
If you’re single, you become really bummed when feelings aren’t reciprocated, but you have to understand that not everyone will feel the same way that you feel about them. It doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you, it just mean you’re wrong for that person. You don’t have to be for everyone. Find someone who loves you the way you are.